10 Book Categories to Include in Your Child's Library to Jumpstart their Language & Literacy

Marissa Kiepert Truong

Are You Wondering What Should Be Included In Your Child's Home Library? Literacy specialist Dr. Truong of A First Foundation weighs in on 10 categories that promote language, literacy and diversity.


Creating a library or collection of children's books in your home can be a fun and easy way to jump start your young child's listening, language, and literacy skills. In addition, children learn other skills from books such as life lessons, facts, and important values. Books can also expose your child to diversity. 

If you are not sure where to begin, below are 10 recommended categories of books and book suggestions to help get you started on creating the perfect little library in your home.

1. Alphabet Books
These books highlight the alphabet, often in alphabetical order, and teach children the alphabetical principle in a fun or creative way. Frequently alphabet books utilize alliteration to highlight letter sounds such as in the phrase "alligators all around," from Maurice Sendak's book with the same title, or pair the letter with an object that starts with its sound, like A is for apple. Alphabet books like Chica Chica Boom Boom, a favorite among preschool teachers, incorporate letter names into the story line. Given their ease for teaching such an important early literacy skill, alphabet books should be a staple in any child's home library.

2. First Word Books
A first word book is one that pairs a picture of an object with its name. Aimed at teaching infants and toddlers new vocabulary, these books are not known for having a plot, but you can often find first word books organized around a theme such as colors, objects, or even love. First word books can be used long after your child graduates from the toddler phase, too. Older children learning another language can practice their skills with first word books, and these books expose children to some decodable words which follow the rules of phonics like cup, cat, or bike. The versatility of first word books makes them a great addition to your child's home library now and for years to come.

3. A Collection Of Nursery Rhymes Or Poetry Books
Every child's home library should include at least one collection of nursery rhymes or a poetry book because they are beneficial for helping children learn the foundational skills for reading. In particular, children gain phonological and phonemic awareness, and children with stronger skills in these areas generally have an easier time learning to read. Phonological awareness is a broad term for being able to identify and manipulate larger parts of spoken language such as words, syllables, onsets and rimes; it also includes awareness of oral rhymes, alliteration and intonation. Phonemic awareness is a narrower term that is a subset of phonological awareness and includes identifying and manipulating individual phonemes (or sounds) in spoken words. Classic nursery rhyme collections include The Real Mother Goose and Mary Englebreit’s Mother Goose: One Hundred Best-Loved Versus. Shel Silverstein’s Where the Sidewalk Ends, a collection of children’s poetry,and Runny Babbit, a book with spoonerisms and rhyming verse, are examples that can also help foster these early literacy skills.

4. Classic Picture Books
Classic picture books that you can read on repeat will build lasting memories - which is why they are a valuable addition to your child's home collection. Most adults recall a book from their childhood that they adored, and chances are, it is a book that has stood the test of time and still read to children today. Your child's home library should include a few classics with beloved characters, vivacious illustrations, and inspiring storylines - all things that make them a "classic." This blog post from Childhood 101 highlights 50+ classic children's books to help you remember some you may have forgotten, or may want to explore for the first time with your own child. 

5. Wordless Books
Wordless books are exactly what they sound like – books with no words, or sometimes, very few words. These books tell the story through the illustrations and promote storytelling, imagination, critical thinking, and language development. What is more, you can “read” these books regardless of your child’s reading level. Wordless books are beneficial for infants, toddlers, preschoolers, and school-age children alike and will be a part of your child's home library for many years. For infants, wordless books such as Tana Hoban’s Black and White or White on Black are a visually stimulating activity; for older children, Chalk by Bill Tomson is a favorite and wordless books by Dan Wiesner such as Flotsam and Mr. Wuffles are high recommended.

6. Non-Fiction Books
A non-fiction book is one filled with facts and information. You can find a non-fiction book on nearly anything and everything you would like to learn about or explore. Non-fiction books are a great way to teach your child about the parts of a book like the table of contents, chapters, or a glossary. Many non-fiction books include photographs instead of illustrations, truly bringing the outside world into your own home. Relate the topic of the non-fiction book to your child’s personal experiences or activate prior knowledge on the topic through discussion for an extra boost in learning. Given the vast learning potential of non-fiction books, they should be included in a start-up children’s home library. If you are looking for a few to get your collection started, non-fiction books from DK include many topics for kids to dive into.

7. Books That Teach Life Lessons Or Other Skills
Books are not only useful in enhancing early literacy skills, but they can also teach your child important lessons about life and values such as kindness, perseverance, respect, or courage. Since books on these topics can spark lively or thoughtful conversations, you’ll want to think about the life lessons, values, or concepts you want to instill in your child and do a little research to find the best books on those topics. That said, here’s a list of books that would be valuable to any home library. 
  •  The Invisible String tackles the topic of fear of being separated from a loved one. Insecurity, anxiety, and fear are emotions that will come and go throughout stages of early childhood and having this book at your fingertips in your library will prove to be useful in many situations. 
  • Those Shoes is a story about a boy who longs for a pair of shoes that everyone at school is wearing, but his family cannot give into what they “want” and have to worry about what they “need” - like new winter boots. The book has a moral that is definitely worth teaching and in the end the boy learns to be thankful for what he does have.
  •  I Like Myself carries a valuable lesson for young children and that is to simply embrace your individuality and what makes you special. All children need to hear that it is OK to be different and learn to love themselves, even the things they may not like.
  •  The Boy Who Wouldn’t Share is a great book to have in your library since sharing is a common early childhood skill that you’ll want your child to learn, and one that often does not come easily to many children. The Rainbow Fish is a well-known children’s book with a similar moral and delightful animal characters. It is also available in a condensed board-book version for infants and toddlers.
  •  My Friend is Sad is part of the Elephant and Piggie series by Mo Willems. At its core it is a tale about compassion, feelings, and friendship that serves as a kid-friendly learning experience. These characters are humorous too, so beware that your child will want to read this story on repeat and likely want to pick up others from this author, too.
8. Multicultural Books Or Books With Diverse Characters
While books about diversity can fit into the latter category, they deserve a mention all on their own because they are a necessity for your home library and expose children to people who may be different from them. On the contrary, they may also reflect your own background or experience, and seeing oneself represented in a story is important for children, especially for those who are underrepresented in children’s books. Be sure to include in your collection books with children of different races, social or economic backgrounds, and special needs. The Colors of Us, The Name Jar, Hair Love, Happy Dreamer, The Bugabees: Friends with Food Allergies, and The Family Book are a few you may want to check out to see if they are a good fit for your home library.

9. Interactive Books
As adults we want to instill a love of learning and reading into our children. Interactive books make this goal fun and a little easier. An interactive book is one that steers away from a traditional story line and engages the reader in a unique way. Interactive books would include lift-the-flap stories, search-and-find books, touch-and-feel books, or others that grab the reader’s attention in some way. Tap to Play and Press Here are creative books that feel like video games without the screen. Usborne’s Busy Train Track book comes with four tracks and pull-back train for hours of reading and fun. The Monster at the End of this Book is a classic interactive book with beloved Grover monster from Sesame Street and sure to be a family favorite.

10. Books Specific To Your Child's Interests
Reading books that are interesting and meaningful to your child helps to build retention of skills and knowledge. What is more, books that your child finds interesting will provide motivation to read and motivation can sometimes be half the battle. Scholastic books are a good (and affordable) place to start looking for books on various subject areas or interest topics. 

Having a well-rounded children's library in your home is one of the first steps in raising a reader! Read here to learn tips for making reading together even more fun and effective. 

Thank you to Dr. Marissa Kiepert Truong of A First Foundation for this guest post.

Learn More About A First Foundation

Marissa Kiepert Truong, Ph.D. is the owner of A First Foundation, LLC which is a small private practice that provides services for children from birth through the early elementary years and their families. With over 20 years of experience in the fields of education and psychology, she supports children through behavioral, learning, and developmental challenges.


"Dr. T." holds a doctorate in educational psychology, is a certified teacher and structured literacy specialist, and a trained parenting coach. As the mother of two children ages 13 and 10 who have various learning needs and life-threatening food allergies, she is an advocate for special education and children with disabilities. She is a proud member of CHADD (children and adults with ADHD), NAEYC (National Association for the Education of Young Children) and supports the Food Allergy Fund.


Dr. Truong is extensively trained in a variety of evidence-based strategies that help children build the appropriate brain connections at a young age for the greatest impact on their success in school and in life.

By Dr. Brianna Matey April 9, 2026
This guest blog from Open Minds Psychological i s designed to help you understand when psychological testing may be helpful, what a quality evaluation actually looks like, and how to move forward with confidence. If you’re ready for clarity not guesswork, a comprehensive psychological evaluation with Open Minds Psychological can help you understand what’s been making things harder and what might actually help next. If you’ve been asking yourself this question quietly or for years you’re not alone. Many adults and parents come to this point after trying therapy, medication, or quick screenings that didn’t quite explain what’s going on. You may function well on the outside, yet feel like daily life takes more effort than it should. Wondering whether you need a psychological evaluation isn’t overreacting. It’s often a sign that something deserves clearer attention. This guide is here to help you understand when psychological testing may be helpful, what a quality evaluation actually looks like, and how to move forward with confidence. What Is a Psychological Evaluation? A psychological evaluation is a comprehensive assessment conducted by a licensed psychologist to understand how someone thinks, feels, learns, and functions. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), psychological assessments use standardized tools and clinical observation to help arrive at diagnoses and guide treatment planning. It combines clinical interviews, standardized testing, and professional judgment to provide diagnostic clarity and meaningful recommendations. This process goes far beyond a short questionnaire or intake visit. A thorough evaluation is designed to answer why certain challenges exist, not just name them. Mini-FAQs Is a psychological evaluation the same as therapy? No. Therapy focuses on treatment and support, while evaluations focus on assessment and diagnosis. Who conducts a psychological evaluation? Licensed psychologists with specialized training in psychological assessment. Why People Seek Psychological Testing (And Why It’s Often Delayed) Many people seek psychological testing after years of feeling misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or stuck in cycles of treatment that don’t fully help. Research published through the National Institutes of Health notes that psychological assessment plays a key role in understanding individual cognitive, emotional, and behavioral functioning beyond surface-level symptoms. Evaluations are often delayed due to access issues, insurance confusion, long waitlists, or being told symptoms are “just anxiety” or “stress.” In practice, I often see adults who spent years in therapy working hard yet still sensing that something fundamental was being missed. This aligns with broader research showing that adults with ADHD or learning differences are frequently underdiagnosed or misdiagnosed without formal evaluation. Parents frequently describe being reassured that their child would “outgrow” concerns, only to watch those struggles intensify over time. Key Takeaways Long wait times and understaffed systems are common Symptoms are frequently misattributed or minimized Many people try therapy first without getting diagnostic clarity Mini-FAQs Is it common to wait years for testing? Unfortunately, yes especially for adults. Can testing still help if I’ve already been in therapy? Often, yes. Testing can clarify what therapy alone couldn’t. Ready for clarity now? If you’re already wondering whether testing could help, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Ready for Clarity Now? Start here: Request a Psychological Evaluation or Consultation Read the Complete Psychological Evaluation Guide 5 Signs It May Be Time for a Psychological Evaluation If symptoms persist, feel confusing or overlapping, or continue to interfere with daily life despite treatment, a psychological evaluation can help clarify what’s really going on. Population studies estimate adult ADHD prevalence at approximately 3–5%, yet diagnosis rates remain significantly lower, highlighting how often these conditions go unrecognized without thorough assessment. 1. Therapy or Medication Hasn’t Fully Helped You may have gained insight or coping tools yet something still feels unresolved. This doesn’t mean therapy failed. It may mean that a clearer understanding of underlying factors is needed. 2. You’ve Received Conflicting or Unclear Diagnoses Many adults describe being told they have anxiety, depression, trauma, or ADHD at different points without a clear explanation of how these fit together. Testing helps sort out overlapping symptoms. 3. Your Difficulties Have Been Present Since Childhood Longstanding challenges with attention, learning, emotional regulation, or organization often point to neurodevelopmental patterns that deserve closer evaluation. 4. Daily Functioning Feels Harder Than It Should If work, relationships, or school require constant overexertion just to keep up, that struggle matters even if others don’t see it. 5. You Want Clear Answers, Not More Guessing Many clients describe relief not fear after testing. Having an explanation can reduce self-blame and help guide more effective next steps. Mini-FAQs Do I need all five signs? No. Even one or two may be enough. Can adults be evaluated for ADHD or learning differences? Yes. Adult evaluations are common and often life-changing. Does This Sound Familiar? Many people reach this point in the article and realize they’ve been carrying unanswered questions for years. If you want a clearer picture of what evaluation actually involves — or how it applies to adults, children, or school‑related concerns — these resources can help: Step‑by‑Step Psychological Evaluation Guide School Psychological Evaluations After a Crisis What Happens During a Comprehensive Psychological Evaluation A quality psychological evaluation includes a detailed intake, standardized testing, careful interpretation, and a written report with clear recommendations. Evidence-based assessment guidelines emphasize the importance of combining clinical interviews with standardized rating scales and multiple data sources to improve diagnostic accuracy. The process should feel thorough, respectful, and collaborative and never rushed. What the Process Usually Includes In-depth clinical interview and history Standardized testing sessions Scoring, analysis, and diagnostic formulation Detailed written report Feedback session to review results and next steps Key Takeaways Testing should allow adequate time Reports should be clear, accurate, and usable Follow-up and explanation are essential Mini-FAQs How long does testing take? Often several hours across multiple sessions. Will someone explain my results to me? You should always receive a feedback session. Psychological Testing vs Therapy: What’s the Difference? Therapy focuses on treatment and coping, while psychological testing focuses on assessment and diagnostic clarity. Clinical literature consistently distinguishes assessment as a foundational step that can meaningfully inform treatment direction and outcomes. Many people benefit from both just at different stages. Therapy Focuses on support and treatment Ongoing sessions Helps manage symptoms Psychological Evaluation Focuses on assessment and diagnosis Time-limited process Explains why symptoms exist Mini-FAQs Should I start with therapy or testing? It depends on your goals and history. Can testing improve therapy outcomes? Often, yes significantly. What Happens After Testing? Understanding Results and Next Steps After testing, you should receive a clear explanation of findings, a written summary, and guidance on treatment options, accommodations, or supports. Good evaluations don’t leave you guessing. Many clients describe a sense of relief after testing finally understanding why certain things have always felt harder. Mini-FAQs Will testing guarantee medication? No. Medication decisions depend on many factors. Can results help with work or school accommodations? Sometimes, yes. How to Get a Psychological Evaluation Without Feeling Overwhelmed The best way to start is by contacting a qualified practice , asking clear questions about process, timeline, and cost, and choosing a provider who values communication and thoroughness. Helpful Questions to Ask How long is the wait? What does the evaluation include? Will I receive a full written report? Do you offer telehealth options? Mini-FAQs Do I need a referral? Sometimes, but not always. Is telehealth testing an option? Often, yes depending on the evaluation. Thinking About Next Steps? If this article helped you recognize your own experience — or your child’s — the next step doesn’t have to be overwhelming. You can: Request an Evaluation or Initial Consultation Explore the Full Psychological Evaluation Process Final Thoughts: If You’ve Been Wondering, That Question Matters Wondering whether you need a psychological evaluation is often a sign that something deserves closer attention. Wanting clarity is not a failure, it’s an act of self-understanding. If you’re ready for answers that feel thorough, validating, and useful, a comprehensive evaluation can be an important next step. FAQ How do I know if I really need psychological testing? If symptoms persist despite therapy, feel confusing or overlapping, or interfere with daily life, testing can help clarify what’s going on and guide more effective next steps. Is a psychological evaluation worth the cost? Many people find that clarity saves time, money, and emotional strain in the long run by reducing trial-and-error treatment. Can I get evaluated as an adult? Yes. Adult evaluations for ADHD, learning differences, and mental health concerns are common and valid. What if my insurance doesn’t cover testing? We will review costs up front and or documentation for reimbursement by your insurer if applicable. We will review the costs up front. Will testing label me permanently? A diagnosis is a tool for understanding, not a definition of who you are. Getting Clear, Supportive Answers If you’re ready for clarity not guesswork, a comprehensive psychological evaluation can help you understand what’s been making things harder and what might actually help next. Take the next step today: Schedule a consultation to learn whether a psychological evaluation is right for you, what the process would look like, and how to move forward with confidence.
By InStride Health March 31, 2026
Thank you to InStride Health for this guest post! For many kids and teens, the end of a school break doesn’t just mean earlier alarms and the return of classes and homework. It can bring a surge of anxiety, dread, and “what if” thoughts that feel overwhelming. For students with anxiety or OCD, the return to school can reactivate worries that felt quieter during time off about things like performance, social situations, health, routines, and/or being away from home. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and more importantly, your child isn’t doing anything wrong. Why the Transition Back Feels So Hard For some kids, the loss of structure and predictability during school breaks can actually make anxiety or OCD feel more intense. But for many others, school breaks feel like a welcome pause where pressure drops. There may be fewer deadlines, more flexibility in routines, and less exposure to situations that trigger anxiety or OCD. When school starts again, all of those demands come back at once. Anxiety tends to latch onto transitions. It thrives on uncertainty and change, and the return to school is full of both. For kids with a history of school avoidance, this transition can feel particularly difficult. Thoughts like “What if I can’t handle it?” “What if I mess up?” or “What if something bad happens at school?” can feel urgent and convincing. Anxiety or OCD may ramp up urges to check, avoid, seek reassurance, or mentally review everything that could go wrong. The (understandable) instinct for many parents is to try to reduce this discomfort as much as possible, often by helping their child avoid the situations causing distress. That response comes from care and protection; the challenge is that avoiding school or other situations that provoke anxiety teaches the brain that it really is dangerous or unmanageable. At InStride Health, we focus on a different message. Anxiety Is Uncomfortable, Not Unsafe InStride’s model is built around helping young people learn that they can experience anxiety, intrusive thoughts, or distress and still move forward. The goal is not to eliminate anxious thoughts or feelings before returning to school. Instead, it’s to help young people build confidence in their ability to handle discomfort when it shows up. Rather than asking, “How do we make anxiety go away?” we ask, “How do we help your child live their full life even when anxiety or OCD is along for the ride?” This shift matters, especially during school transitions. When kids learn that nervous feelings and intrusive thoughts are tolerable and temporary, school stops feeling like something they must escape and starts feeling like something they can practice handling. What Support Can Look Like at Home Gently normalize what your child is feeling. A s school approaches, it can help to name and validate what your child is experiencing. Saying things like, “It makes sense that your anxiety (or OCD) is louder right now because your brain isn’t used to this routine anymore,” or “I get why you feel an urge to check your backpack again; transitions make uncertainty feel bigger,” can reduce shame and pressure. Limit giving excessive reassurance. Avoid repeatedly promising that everything will be okay. While reassurance can feel comforting in the moment, over time it can keep anxiety and OCD in charge. Set compassionate boundaries around reassurance-seeking. If your child continues to seek certainty, you can gently set a boundary by saying, “I’m not going to answer that. I’m not ignoring you; I’m ignoring your anxiety.” Focus on effort and willingness. Praise small steps, such as packing a backpack or showing up even when anxious. Build familiarity with the school environment ahead of time. If anxiety about the return is particularly high, practicing driving to the school or walking around the building a few days in advance can help the transition feel more familiar. Re-establish consistent routines before school starts. Gradually shifting back sleep schedules, meal times, and morning routines can reduce the shock to the system when school begins. How InStride Providers Help During the Back to School Transition At InStride, therapists and exposure coaches work closely with kids, teens, and families to prepare for the return to school in a supportive, structured way. Because school avoidance tends to snowball, we prioritize re-entry and getting back into the building and then weave in exposures to specific fears in small, doable steps. For one student, that might mean practicing sitting with uncertainty about a test grade. For another, it might involve tolerating the feeling that their desk is “contaminated” without washing their hands immediately. The focus is always on building – not forcing – bravery or pushing too fast. We also help kids connect these challenges to what matters to them. Whether it’s friendships, learning, independence, or future goals, values provide motivation when anxiety or OCD is loud. When a young person understands why showing up to school matters to them personally, it becomes easier to keep going even on hard days. Moving Forward One Day at a Time The return to school after break doesn’t have to feel perfect to be successful. Anxiety may spike, OCD rituals may resurface, and tough mornings may happen. Progress is measured by willingness, not comfort.
By Erica Desper March 23, 2026
Explore the PEERS® Program for Middle and High School Students The PEERS® program at Hill Top Preparatory School is a supplemental, evidence-based social skills program designed to empower adolescents and young adults with diverse learning profiles, including Autism, ADHD, anxiety, and other socio-emotional challenges. Developed at UCLA by Dr. Elizabeth Laugeson, this world-renowned program focuses on helping participants achieve success in school, work, and life by equipping them with the social tools needed to thrive. PEERS® for Adolescents is ideal for motivated middle and high school students eager to enhance their social skills, resolve conflicts, and establish lasting friendships. Is PEERS® Right for Your Teen? Participants will develop essential skills to: Build and maintain meaningful friendships Start and sustain conversations Navigate electronic communication Use humor in social interactions Organize social get-togethers Be a good sport in competitive settings Manage disagreements and conflicts Improve social reputation Handle teasing and bullying effectively Program Details This program is designed for students who: Face challenges in making or keeping friends Are interested in developing their social skills Are willing to participate fully in the program Can attend consistently for the full duration Have a supportive parent/guardian willing to engage in the sessions Duration: 14 weeks of 90-minute sessions held once a week in the evening. Structure: Social skills are taught through engaging lessons, role-playing, and real-time socialization practice. Parent Involvement: Concurrent parent/guardian sessions focus on strategies to support their teen’s progress at home. Active parent participation is essential for maximizing the program's impact. Scholarships: There are a limited number of scholarships available for qualified students. Healthy relationships are the foundation of a happy and successful life. This group is designed to empower young adults with the skills they need to create meaningful connections with friends, family, coworkers, and romantic partners. Participants will learn how to communicate effectively, build trust, and foster deeper intimacy in all their relationships. Explore PEERS® Program for College Students & Young Adults In PEERS® for Young Adults, the following skills will be learned and expanded on: Development and maintenance of friendships Improve conversational skills Navigate entering & exiting conversations Use humor appropriately Communicate electronically Improve dating skills Organize social gatherings Handle direct and indirect bullying Manage disagreements effectively Handle dating pressure with confidence Interested? Take the next step today!
By Dr. Brianna Matey March 3, 2026
This guest blog from Open Minds Psychological e xplains why schools request mental health evaluations after a behavioral or psychiatric crisis and how families can access fast, trauma-informed, school-compliant assessments. Based in Pennsylvania, Open Minds offers 48-hour turnaround times and specializes in school-ready documentation that helps students return to class safely and with support. When the School Says Your Child Needs a Mental Health Evaluation If you’ve received a call or letter from your child’s school saying they can’t return until they’ve had a psychological evaluation, you’re likely feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and unsure of what to do next. You’re not alone—and you’re not doing anything wrong. These situations are incredibly stressful, especially when you’re navigating them without a roadmap. At Open Minds Psychological, we specialize in trauma-informed, school-compliant assessments. Let’s walk through why schools make this request, what it means for your child, and what steps you can take to get the support you need, fast. As a team of clinicians who’ve worked with hundreds of children and teens in crisis, we understand both the urgency and the emotion behind school-required evaluations. Many of us are parents ourselves—and all of us believe that a child’s future should never be defined by their hardest moment. “I was afraid my child would be labeled forever. But instead, she felt seen. The clinician actually listened—and the school finally had a plan that made sense.” – Parent, Bucks County According to the American Psychological Association, early re-entry planning after hospitalization significantly reduces school refusal and emotional relapse in students. Ready to get help now? If your school has asked for an evaluation and you’re unsure what to do next, schedule a consultation with Open Minds Psychological today to get clear, expert guidance. Why Schools Request a Psychological Evaluation The Role of Schools in Student Safety Schools have a legal and ethical responsibility to ensure a safe learning environment. When a student experiences a behavioral or emotional crisis—whether that’s a panic attack, aggressive outburst, self-harming comment, or hospitalization—the school may request an evaluation to understand whether it’s safe for the student to return and how best to support them. Q: Why did the school say my child needs a psychological evaluation? A: They’re making sure it’s safe for your child to return and want expert guidance on how to support them. Common Triggers Psychiatric hospitalization or ER visit Suspensions involving threats or aggression Major changes in behavior or emotional state Self-harm or suicidal ideation reported at school Legal & Liability Factors Schools may also be navigating state guidelines or district policies that require formal documentation from a licensed professional before readmitting a student after a behavioral or psychiatric crisis. What Is a High-Risk Psychological Assessment? A Focused, Trauma-Informed Evaluation Unlike standard psychological evaluations, a high-risk assessment is designed to evaluate immediate concerns about a student’s emotional and behavioral stability in a school setting. Q: What exactly is a high-risk psychological assessment? A: It’s a short-term, focused evaluation that checks if your child is ready to go back to school and what support they may need. evaluation that determines if a student is emotionally and behaviorally ready to return to school after a crisis. What It Includes Brief clinical interviews Behavior and risk screenings Review of medical/school documentation Feedback and written recommendations for school reintegration What It Doesn’t Do This isn’t a full diagnostic battery—it won’t label or pathologize your child. Instead, it aims to answer two questions: Is it safe for your child to return to school? What support will help them succeed when they do? Looking for ways to support your teen during this process? Explore our therapy for adolescents page to see how ongoing therapeutic support can help your child feel understood and regain confidence. How to Request a School-Compliant Evaluation: Step-by-Step Get the school’s referral or request in writing – This is usually an email or letter stating that an evaluation is needed. Contact a licensed child psychologist – Prioritize providers experienced in school settings and turnaround within 24–48 hours. Prepare documentation – Include hospital discharge notes, school communication, or prior evaluations. Attend the assessment appointment – Bring your child, and ensure time for both parent and child interviews. Submit the evaluation report to the school – The clinician will provide a formal letter with return-to-school recommendations. Additional Parent Questions (People Also Ask) Q: Can I use my own psychologist instead of the school’s? A: Yes, you can choose your own licensed provider—as long as their report meets the school’s requirements. Families have the right to choose their own licensed provider, as long as the evaluation meets school documentation standards. Q: What if the school pushes back on our evaluation? A: Ask them why—it’s often a formatting issue, and the clinician can usually revise it to fit their policy. to clarify their requirements. A clinician can often revise or supplement the report to meet district criteria. Q: How fast can we get this done? A: Open Minds can usually schedule and complete the full evaluation—including paperwork—within 48 hours., we typically complete high-risk evaluations within 48 hours—including written documentation for the school. Take the next step today: Schedule an appointment or call us to get your child on the path back to school. For a deeper, step-by-step walkthrough, visit our full Psychological Evaluation Guide.
By Erica Desper February 13, 2026
Where Can I Have My Child Evaluated for Autism, ADHD & Giftedness? If you have concerns about your child's development or learning, then you likely already know that many local providers have waitlists as long as 18-24 months for evaluations. As a parent who was once putting my child's name on those lists, I grew frustrated and made it my mission to collect parent recommended resources with minimal wait times who can help families get answers as early as possible. Here are many excellent options to consider.
By Nicole Tran, InStride Therapist February 5, 2026
Thank you to our friends at InStride Health for this guest post! At its core, perfectionism is the tendency to have very high standards for ourselves or others. Not all perfectionism is harmful. Research shows that some perfectionistic behaviors are useful and help young people reach meaningful goals. This adaptive form of striving pushes kids and teens to work hard, take pride in their efforts, and stay flexible when things don’t go exactly as planned. The trouble begins when perfectionism becomes driven by anxiety, guilt, fear of judgment, fear of failure, and shame. Often individuals engaging in problematic perfectionistic behaviors experience fixed thinking and unrealistic expectations. These internal pressures can be relentless and emotionally exhausting, fueling self-criticism, procrastination, and avoidance. And instead of helping kids grow, they slowly shrink the world they feel comfortable living in. Here are some ways problematic perfectionistic behaviors can show up in a young person’s life. School and the Pressure to Get Everything Exactly Right Academic settings are a breeding ground for problematic perfectionistic behaviors. A young person might feel a need for things to be done in a very specific way, redoing steps or checking their work repeatedly to relieve the discomfort of imperfection. Others may delay starting work because beginning feels risky, or finish a task and avoid turning it in because it isn’t perfect. Over time, school becomes less about learning and more about controlling outcomes. Social Life, People-Pleasing, and the Fear of Being Seen Imperfectly Social situations are another area where problematic perfectionistic behaviors can show up. Some young people might overthink what they say, rehearse conversations, or avoid certain social situations altogether. Others become chronic people-pleasers, feeling they need to always be agreeable or helpful. Fears of being judged, embarrassed, or perceived negatively can make them feel they must present a “perfect” version of themselves at all times. This limits friendships, prevents authentic connection, and makes everyday social interactions, like starting conversations, meeting new people, or speaking up, feel stressful. Hobbies, Creativity, and the Loss of Play Perfectionism doesn’t just affect academics or relationships; it can drain the joy out of hobbies and creative activities. Kids and teens may pull back from or even stop doing the things they love, like drawing, playing music or sports, participating in plays, or trying new things because they feel pressure to be the best. They are scared to even try out of fear that they won’t excel right away or become a star, and their world becomes less playful and curious and more fear-driven. Decision-Making and the Fear of Choosing Wrong Another place problematic perfectionistic behaviors show up is in decision-making. Buying gifts, picking out clothes, or deciding where to eat can start to feel overwhelming. Young people may spend so much time thinking through options and trying to find the “best” one that they freeze, avoid choosing, or hand decisions off to others. Avoidance becomes a way of staying “safe.” If they don’t choose, they can’t choose wrong. Unlearning Problematic Perfectionistic Behaviors Because problematic perfectionistic behaviors are learned, they can be unlearned, with the right evidence-based support and practice. At InStride Health, we help young people understand that targeting these behaviors in treatment isn’t about lowering expectations or giving up on values like hard work or trying their best. Instead, it’s about teaching them to notice and name these behaviors and associated thoughts and emotions and then choosing new, more flexible ways to respond. This work includes tolerating imperfections and uncertainty through exposures, engaging with thoughts more flexibly, and building genuine self-compassion. As perfectionism loosens its grip, young people can rediscover the confidence, curiosity, and freedom to try things without needing them to go perfectly. And their world expands again.
By Pat Bergemier March 5, 2025
6 Common Special Needs Planning Missteps & How to Avoid Them Guest Post by Pat Bergmaier, CFP®, ChSNC® Over the years, I’ve met many well-meaning, loving parents who mistakenly assume they’re “all set” when it comes to handling the unique financial needs of their child with special needs, only to find out later that they’ve missed a key step. It’s understandable, but these situations can often be avoided with some proper planning help. Here are some frequent planning missteps to be aware of that could impact the financial future of your child or family member with special needs.
By Erica Desper July 18, 2024
Thank you to Dr. David Danish, President and Psychiatrist at Philadelphia Integrative Psychiatry and Chris Smith, Board Certified Behavior Analyst and Licensed Behavior Specialist for answering this parent question.
By Erica Desper July 16, 2024
Join me in welcoming ABA Centers of Pennsylvania to Bala Cynwyd and Wayne/King of Prussia. They are smashing lengthy local waitlists for autism diagnosis and care, getting children 2-17 years in within 47 days of their initial contact and they work with most major insurances.